I’m a busy mom and sometimes I look back incredulously on the days when I had hours to primp and prep for a midweek dinner out. You don’t appreciate having so much time to yourself until it’s gone. Like most moms, I spend much of my day doing things for other people. It’s ok though—I love those people!

But some days, I just want to feel like myself. If you’re a new parent you might miss going for a walk, grabbing a drink with friends, watching a movie by yourself, or window shopping online. One thing I miss is dressing up for dinner in the city. Don’t get me wrong, grabbing takeout sushi and eating it at home in pajamas can be wonderful. But sometimes, a mom just needs to dress up and get out.

You need time that is ONLY yours. I know it’s hard, but you deserve it. It can also help you feel refreshed and ready to take on the next week!