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10 Realizations Changed My Life

Bloggers, like all people, love to share the highlights of their lives. But I’m a person with self-doubt, worries, and stuff I need to figure out, just like anyone else. Who wants to read about that? Maybe you do. I want to share a set of realizations that have quite literally changed my life in the last few months.

  1. You are the sum of the 5 people most present in your life. So much of life is social, who you know, and who you most engage. This is under your control. Surround yourself with smart, interesting people who inspire you.

  2. There’s a reason why some people achieve unlikely success and a big part of it is about how they approach their strengths and weaknesses. My husband wrote the book on this—literally. He recently spoke to a group of venture capitalists about identifying people who are on the cusp of success. You can find his book here: High School Dropout to Harvard.

  3. You can make a living doing what you love. Again, my husband showed me the way on this one. I’m lucky I married the most inspiring man I know.

  4. Be grateful for everything. Since I shifted my attitude toward constant gratitude, good things keep coming into my life. When you’re resentful, you’re off the path.

  5. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” -Oscar Wilde. Do you want to be great in your career, in school, in blogging? Don’t try to be someone else; they are the best person at being them. You are the best at being you.

  6. Invest in things that help you become the sharpest version of you.  Maybe it’s a new computer, a ticket to a conference, a book, or class. Reap the returns.

  7. We’re all just passing through.

  8. Some people, places, and events in your life are shipwrecks. Don’t keep dragging them behind you. Cut them off and swim away.

  9. Never stop learning. I’m constantly reading books and consuming online media. I’m a fairly busy person, especially as a mom, but I even started taking a computer programming class. Because it’s a way of investing in myself.

  10. Love is the best motivation. For me, it’s been motherhood—I’m driven by an endless supply of love for my daughter. Love is the most renewable energy.

Blogging sometimes feels like I’m sending messages out in a bottle. I hope this one is read by the person who needs it. Please tell me if this list resonates with you. Love, Jay.

Wearing Spring in Your Skirt

Plus size outfit idea: Spring Florals

Moda Primavera: Falda Floreada

The weather is brighter, warmer, and at least in our garden, the flowers have started to come back. I feel like spring is worth celebrating, so I bought my first floral skirt. I’ve said before that I love abstract floral prints but this one was too pretty to pass up.

Los días están más claros, cálidos, y en nuestro jardín, las flores han empezado a regresar. Siento que la primavera se debe celebrar y por eso compré mi primera falda floreada. He dicho antes que amo los estampes abstractos, pero estaba tan preciosa que la tuve que agregar a mi guardarropa.

I’m obsessed with this this beautiful blouse from plus-size brand Truly You. Look how pretty the print is with branches covered in white and pink blooms and little birds! Went with my regular size for that chic slouch we all love so much. I feel like a fancy Easter egg in this outfit.

Truly You Blouse, Silk pants by Ralph Lauren scored on ebay, Jacket: Simply Be, Manolo Blahnik maryjanes, Tangle of pearls from J Crew.

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